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A Gentleman's Guide To Affection In Early Dating

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Many relationships begin with various forms of physical touch, from a quick kiss on the cheek to full blown sexual intercourse on a first date. However for a gentleman who is serious about dating and finding his potential wife, affection must be approached very carefully and respectfully. The goal is for your love interest, "Lady A," to always feel safe, cared for and unpressured whenever she is in your presence. Here are some important guidelines for physical touch and intimacy during the first 2-3 months of dating "Lady A": Hand-holding during months 1-3 is quite acceptable, safe and allows you to measure a woman's receptiveness of a physical gesture. If Lady A interlaces her fingers or wraps them around yours, she is open to the gesture.  If  Lady A pulls her hand away, do not pursue it again for at least another 3 weeks.  This doesn't mean a rejection of you; some women are extra shy regarding public displays of affection. If after 3 months

Qualities Consistent With A Great Husband: Part 2

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If you are a single man who is tired of being single, and wants to be the best husband to his future wife, or a married man who aspires to be a great husband to his forever wife…this blog is for you. Let this (continued) list of solid principles guide your marriage, family, and life. Please see the previous blog for the first set.   13. Forgiveness Together with his wife he sets standards for their marriage. If his wife faulters, he is not vengeful. He doesn’t record and look back on all her past transgressions. He knows how to forgive, forget, and truly move forward. If it is a serious transgression (infidelity, deceit, addiction, physical harm, etc.), he takes active steps to incorporate professional help or pastoral advisement.   14. Principled His behavior is just, and he is governed by a set of principles. He departs from malevolence, deceit and corruption. He holds himself accountable for his own behavior and blames no one, especially not his wife. His children ha

Qualities Consistent With A Great Husband: Part 1

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If you are a single man who is tired of being single, and wants to be the best husband to his future wife, or a married man who aspires to be a great husband to his forever wife…this blog is for you. Let this list of solid principles guide your marriage, family, and life. 1.     Affectionate He gives his wife the affection she desires. He kisses, embraces her and holds her hand. He is sweet and romantic to her no matter how many years have passed.     2. Leadership He is reliable, takes initiative, and knows how to guide and lead a family. His wife never feels lost or alone because he is at the helm offering guidance, protection and assistance with the family. He is an active father and good role model for his children.     3. Loyalty He is faithful to his wife physically and emotionally. He doesn’t flirt with other women. He is fearful of losing his wife. He understands that what he does while not in his wife’s presence is more indicative of his loyalty to her.