Qualities Consistent With A Great Husband: Part 1




If you are a single man who is tired of being single, and wants to be the best husband to his future wife, or a married man who aspires to be a great husband to his forever wife…this blog is for you.
Let this list of solid principles guide your marriage, family, and life.
1.   Affectionate
He gives his wife the affection she desires. He kisses, embraces her and holds her hand. He is sweet and romantic to her no matter how many years have passed.

   2. Leadership
He is reliable, takes initiative, and knows how to guide and lead a family. His wife never feels lost or alone because he is at the helm offering guidance, protection and assistance with the family. He is an active father and good role model for his children.

   3. Loyalty
He is faithful to his wife physically and emotionally. He doesn’t flirt with other women. He is fearful of losing his wife. He understands that what he does while not in his wife’s presence is more indicative of his loyalty to her.

   4. Self-Love
He loves himself as he loves his wife and family. He strives to be happy and healthy so he can always be there for them. He does not neglect his own health and spiritual well-being.

   5. Trust
He has faith and confidence in his wife’s character.  He entrusts her with his heart, love, health, children, property and finances.

   6. Knowledgeable
He takes time to get to know his wife in detail. He is a good listener and knows the desires of her heart, her favorite flowers, color, music, food, place to be, etc. He remains interested in knowing his wife more deeply as life goes on.

    
  7. Honest
He is kind with his honesty and always transparent to his wife no matter the circumstance. He is open to her and shares all matters of the heart. She trusts him implicitly because he is consistent in actions and deeds. He knows that his actions toward her will always speak louder than his words.
   8. Appreciation
He doesn’t forget to thank his wife for all she does to make life and home peaceful and comfortable for him and their family. He appreciates even the little things she does for him. She is inspired to serve and love him because she knows that her efforts do not go unnoticed.
   9. Patience
He is not easily angered by his wife and children. He is not easily angered by problems and marital challenges. He is aware that enduring trials and solving issues with his wife strengthens their bond. His calm countenance in bad times inspires her.
  10. Persistence
He is persistent and consistent with his goals and dreams for his family. He is not easily discouraged and doesn’t give up even if several attempts fail. He will continue to provide his family a brighter future.
  11. Self-Control
He has self-discipline and control of impulsive behaviors that do not serve his marriage or family. He avoids gluttony of any kind, drunkenness, substance abuse, being idle, flirtation, lust, deceit, and other destructive behaviors that will place his marriage in misery. If he slips, he is immediately honest with his wife and genuinely accountable for his behavior. He does not continue to commit wrongdoings, such as lying, cheating, being irresponsible and feeling entitled about it.
  12. Compassion
He is understanding to his wife because he is compassionate and aware. He feels her happiness and wants her to remain happy. He also feels your sadness and suffering, thus, he wants to do everything to ease your pain. He is a sounding board for his wife to express her thoughts and ideas. He checks in with her to determine if she prefers his ear or his input on issues that arise. 
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Dr. Sue is the coach for "The man who has everything but his wife." Let her take the mystery out of relating to the right woman. Getting married is easy, staying married takes more than romance, it is a skill. This skill requires sincerity, self development and commitment and begins with the basic principles. Dr. Sue is a Marriage & Family Coach of 15 years, accepting private clients from anywhere via Whatsapp and Skype.  Payment is accepted via Zelle or Cashapp. If you are a man seeking personal and confidential coaching, email Dr. Sue for appointments at 4MenWhoMarry@gmail.com. or click here.

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