Qualities Consistent With A Great Husband: Part 2


If you are a single man who is tired of being single, and wants to be the best husband to his future wife, or a married man who aspires to be a great husband to his forever wife…this blog is for you.
Let this (continued) list of solid principles guide your marriage, family, and life. Please see the previous blog for the first set.

  13. Forgiveness
Together with his wife he sets standards for their marriage. If his wife faulters, he is not vengeful. He doesn’t record and look back on all her past transgressions. He knows how to forgive, forget, and truly move forward. If it is a serious transgression (infidelity, deceit, addiction, physical harm, etc.), he takes active steps to incorporate professional help or pastoral advisement.
  14. Principled
His behavior is just, and he is governed by a set of principles. He departs from malevolence, deceit and corruption. He holds himself accountable for his own behavior and blames no one, especially not his wife. His children have a great role model in him. His righteous actions attract good destiny to his family.
  15. Respect
He respects women…especially his wife, mother, daughters and sisters. Though they may hold differing opinions than his, he respects the opinions and decisions of all women. He knows how and when to disagree and still be agreeable in his actions.  He also respects himself and would not do anything to violate his wife’s trust or dishonor his family.
  16. Content
He is happy and content with his wife. For him, she is his dream come true. He never desires to have mistresses. He never envies other men, because he feels like he is the luckiest man on Earth with his own wife.
  17. Faith
He is a spirit-filled man with belief and accountability in something greater than himself. He honors that belief, practices its principles and obeys teachings that keep him, and his family centered, grounded and whole. Having a wife and family that share in his faith and who practice together is important to him.
  18. Hopeful
He always sees a good future with his wife no matter how difficult the present is. He doesn’t easily lose hope in his marriage despite weaknesses and shortcomings. He always gives his wife encouragement and positive vibes which helps to keep their home and family happier and more confident.
   19. Kindness
He is a kind-hearted man. He always wants to see his wife smile and laugh. He is not harsh and disrespectful. He never wants to cause any physical, mental and emotional harm to his wife or children. He is gentle with his wife in mind heart and body. He doesn’t like quarrels and petty fights, nor does he seek to tear down the life he has built with his wife.
   20. Humility
He is not proud and arrogant. He is confident in his strength mentally, emotionally and spiritually therefore he is able to overcome pride and encourage kindness, peace, and happiness in his family and the people around him. Again, a role model for his children.
   21. Supportive
He supports his wife in her endeavors to be a better and more successful woman. He accepts her for who she is and doesn’t judge her. He doesn’t force her to become a person that she is not. However, he continues to inspire her to grow as a better person.  He also supports his children in their own choices considering that they are nondestructive ones.
  22. Just
He is fair and just. He will never make his wife feel that life with him is unfair. As a leader in his marriage, he consults with his wife and considers her thoughts always. She never feels like an unequal partner.
  23. True Love
He is truly in love with his wife. He knows it, is certain about it, feels it, and tells her about his true feelings even in random times and places. The foundation of his marriage and sanctity of family is the pillar of his life. He recognizes that this is where his successes flow from.


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